Hey T
I don't check in very often anymore. But I saw your post and it touched my heart.
I remember my son telling me many years ago that everything in life is a degree of "want". If one person wants something more than the other person, the degree of "want" is out of balance. And it doesn't work. When one persons degree of "want" is so much greater.....the other person doesn't need to "want" at all. The first person wants it enough for both of them.
I truly believe that when we let go with love, it gives them the opportunity to "want" it enough for themselves.
Sending love and gentle hugs
ke