C2- I thought very carefully before posting my thoughts. I was quite aware at how much it played on my mind. Gran drove to the meeting- at least 30 minutes. She spoke of almost making the choice of not to come. She had 2 dogs in her car. She was well dressed- neat hair, spoke with articulation. She laughed and seemed relaxed. Her memory was good as she referred not only to stuff from the meeting- but yesterday, last week and years ago. She mentioned having good family connections and not drinking for some time. My concern was the safety of the kid.