Newark is called the armpit of the country for a reason.....
I am going to see the dr next week if the breathing/anx episodes continue. Not sure about taking things off my plate exactly, but some reframing and other communication effort with Cliff on how we deal with what, and how other stuff doesn't involve me....we will spend tomorrow night together then have a couple of days early in the week - I have needed (and gotten) some reassurance that we are on the same page, moving forward.
Just home from work- time for bed.
Hope all are feeling better and had a great day-
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