my dad gave us great days but he was a drinker, that gave us bad days to, but i miss how smart he was, i was having trouble with a =to problem (simplest way to put it) in my teens he could have answered that right off, and if it was harder he would show me the answer in a day or to, he was good that way, mo being a non drinker sees how i an struggling now and she is still great, she taught me how to be valuable to others. they both gave me so much that i hate living without.