Hi Mera, I'm in the same situation. I live in a small town with a few meetings, but only during the times I am at work, or very late at night. I'm a single mom as well, and don't have a babysitter then. I have responsibilities like making dinner and getting my kids in bed. I can't be out at night. I never go "out" to drink, i just sit on the porch in the rocking chair and have my wine and cigarettes on the weekends, never during the week. Anyways, it's no good for me, and I'm ready to stop altogether. I've cut down over the past few years, but it's time to cut it out of my life!
I, too, am looking for an online sponser and will check out the link above.
Just wanted to wish you success in your journey to sobriety! It's difficult and takes a lot of hard work, but we can do it!