I'm at 5 months myself. I don't obsess as much but if I see a half full bottle of beer that someone else has "finished" wonder why they would waste half a bottle of beer lol. But a friend of mine in AA who I look up to a lot says "Don't set yourself up to drink. Don't say 'if old Blue dies I might drink', or even saying I'm never going to drink again can set you up. I have to take it one day at a time with sobriety and tell myself I don't drink, I can't drink, I won't drink.