Thread: I'm a sucker :(
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Old 03-14-2017, 06:45 PM
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batchel9
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I'm a sucker :(

I found an apartment and told AH that I found an apartment and submitted an application for it. He was shocked. The first night the convo wasn't great. The second night he was apologetic, understanding, talked about where his head was at, talked about how my points weren't valid, talked about his plans, etc. My rational head knows he is probably just trying to say what I want to hear. But he seems so sincere, I'm falling for it. He doesn't want this. It's like he just doesn't know what to do for long term success. Part of me wants to give it a month and see if more action is taken. If not, then proceed with moving out.

He's been sober about 2 months so far. I have just felt like he hasn't put forth enough effort to sustain it. Now he knows exactly where things stand and what's at stake. Just wondering if more time is appropriate or if I'm just emotional and crazy. Thoughts?!
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