I wasn't your typical alcoholic. I never missed work or bills. I never was violent or falling down, and never slurred my words, but I am an alcoholic. I just perfected appearing as though I wasn't. I could drink a 12 pack and you would never know it. I've said this several times on here that I told my daughter I quit drinking and she asked me why. I hid the fact that I couldn't control my drinking. i planned my whole life around it.
Looks can be deceiving. If you think you have a problem odds are you do.