Dietra,
Prayers. You are in a tough spot.,
Your situation is similar to mine. Except, I was like yout hubby.
Your hubby has to want to quit. Until then, no amount of help can save him from his addiction.
My wife begged me to quit, but I couldn't until I started having horrible panic attacks etc. That motivated me to stop. It was painful pulling out of the physical addiction. The mental part is still linguering.
You might try showing him this site. But again, most folks are blind to their addiction. They get offended when it is brought up.
Even my wife. I told her booze weakens her immune system and might be why she gets sick sometimes after drinking...she drinks once a mlnth or less.
She got mad and said....just because you don't drink, you think you know everything...I said...just trying to help...awkward.
That is why I come to sr. It reminds me of the hell I left behind.
Addiction is a nightmare.
Thanks.