New here...needing advice...
Just found this site and am hopeful I can learn from you all. Thank you for accepting me!
I guess my story is like many of yours'...my husband drinks and it's becoming a huge problem for me.
I confronted him about it this AM...all I said was, "Honey, I need to talk to you about your drinking." And BAM! Just like that, instant fury. "Fine. I'll just stop," and that was all he'd say to me...he got up and walked off and has let me know by words (very few) and actions that he's absolutely furious with me.
I know and understand that this reaction is normal, and typical, and his way of punishing me/deflecting his self-anger onto someone else... But what I want to know is how do I get myself to the spot where I'm not a puddle of tears over this and my stomach isn't in knots?
Thanks in advance.