Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
it's called Manipulation.
Yup, he's gonna teach YOU to call any kind of attention to his drinking. Never mind that it was only the two of you present to hear a fairly mild expression of concern and exasperation about it.
At this point I'd REALLY advise against apologizing for anything. And if I were you, I'd be thinking really hard about the cost/benefit analysis of remaining in this relationship.