They try to make things out to be your fault that are not your fault...they want you to share in blame when you are not to blame...talk about DUMPING on someone....it doesn't feel good to be dumped on, does it? All in the name of love? 'But, I love him'...of course you do, dear....but is he being loving to you? And to come back at you in a rage for just being truthful? Well, that's just **** poor treatment is what that is. You were relaying a truth he didn't want to hear....so he shot the messenger. Not your fault.