Originally Posted by
Whodathunk 
But maybe they are able to have a broader perspective and take into account that life takes over and some of us have to face handling and buying booze.
Or maybe not. Broad-mindedness isn't for everyone.
Are you doing everyone's judging for them?
Isn't it odd that when we (some of us) feel we're being judged negatively for something - we don't stop doing it, but we wish for approval all the same?
I JUST WANT TO BE ACCEPTED BY EVERYBODY! It's not socially acceptable to think this. We're taught that - even though we're supposed to fit in - we're also supposed to maintain a sense of individuality and be proud of it whether others agree with us or not. Our decisions put us at odds with others sometimes. Listen to others or listen to self? The internal tug-of-war is ongoing.
Who on earth would pass up an opportunity for the feeling of being approved of by everyone they know? It's
never going to happen.
Best!