just myself- if someones getting a sig at a meeting, ok.
if someones getting multiple sigs at a meeting,then tries to get mine, not happenin. im not going to enable.
amends for it? welp, I don't think you owe an amends for being an adult and handling it on your own.
however, you could talk to this woman( whats a coordinator?) and get her OPINION on how to handle it if it happens again.