It was a complete shock to me, and my daughter in law. But my husband knew for 2 days prior to the OD about the drugs and he didn't tell either of us. He says our son came to him and admitted the problem and was taking time off work to straighten himself out and get counseling. My husband asked if his wife knew and advised him to tell her. He was afraid but said he would. He overdosed before he talks to her. If she hadn't been home and heard him fall, saw him seizing and choking, he would have died, she cleared his airway before EMS arrived. I have a lot of mixed feelings about my husband's decision, but he has beat himself up enough. We have to let that go,he did what he took thought was best and said our son seemed stable and very clear minded. But we all know the next time someone gets high, it could be the very last time,