I see now people start new topics and post it. Saw the parents section noted here and became emotional reading and seeing how many families are split apart. We haven't faced this yet and it puts new fear in me. I have no idea how my son will react when he is woken up, no real idea of the depth of his drug use or if his marriage will survive. His wife is right by his side and calmer than we are even though she is apart from their brand new baby . we are all exhausted and I don't even know what I expect to even benefit by posting except to vent and not feel alone.