Do you just try not to fight for a 20+ yr marriage? Even though he has treated me badly? and yes she knew he is married with kids.
Do i just let her ride off with my husband? I am not excusing his behavior, but why would someone sleep with a married man with kids?
Let them get on with it. Why she is with him is not your concern. It's not a marriage in the normal sense when you are marriage to an alcoholic anyway. They are married to drink. Latest lady friend will have all the stress and you are best out of it.((hugs))