After he locked the exit from the fire escape today I completely lost it with him. It wasn't like me. I am usually calm, measured and reasonable but having had to get my 7 kids out of a house fire during a flood ( emergency services line was busy when I phoned) at 4 am into a garden under water, with exah so drunk I couldn't wake him, I went ballistic. I beat his door down and gave him what for. He moved the gate.
He's a bit scared of me now. Hell have no fury like a momma bear scorned.