hearthealth.....you might want to check out this website
www.womansdivorce.com
It is arranged by state...and, it covers about every area of divorce that you can think of. It is educational in nature...so, it won't replace your actual lawyer....
But...it can help you with what questions that you might ask your lawyer....
It has lots of helpful links, too.....
The more prepared, the more confident you will feel...
Knowledge is power....