Originally Posted by
quitter62 
In for the subscription. Pretty rough the last few days. My wife has been a real bear and I am just getting tired of it. Quit drinking, work pretty hard around the house, hardly set around doing nothing. Seems I can't say anything anymore without a ****** response. I can't win. 14 years together and not sure if we are going to survive.
Have been thinking real hard about abandoning this sobriety thing and not even sure I want talked out of it anymore. Just trying to be honest!
You all are GREAT!
I'm so sorry ~ that is tough. And does not seem fair at all.
I'm thinking your wife may be struggling a little without the support you have here, and have chosen for yourself.
From what you said, it sounds like she is not open to face to face support groups....perhaps you might like to go to an Alanon meeting.
A lot of folks there deal with this all of the time, and you might find some very specific support and advice.
Just a thought....no matter what, you have us. Always. We are here for you. So much love.
♥
As for letting your sobriety go ~ I don't think that's what you want.
♥♥