I am pleased that you are still going to church and I hope that you find it helpful. I've just come home from a nice midweek church supper. We pray and share together a bit, sometimes about difficulties in relationships and so on. As I'm sure you'll appreciate, it's a lot more difficult to share and get support if a former partner's still in the social circle. That's not to discourage you from using your church friends to get you through a difficult time. I'm just wondering if there's another way to approach this.