Lexie, as time goes by and I read more and more, I've begun to see contradictions too. In fact, sometimes when I'm looking for that day's picture/quote, I'll come across something that makes me want to scream--today I saw one that said "the more
I and
me are in the relationship, the less room for
we and
our." Is there anything worse that could possibly be said to so many here? But to say that selfishness isn't a problem for
anyone wouldn't be true either.
How do I know when to ignore those feelings and just go by facts? Well, usually I just try to trust my gut...