Poignant subject Ann. I meet with a newbie counsellor 2morrow (as moved from communal recovery to ind. unit- different local'y).. I have learnt this last 17 months to look at a lot of the crap in my past- as a reacting child/drunk- to an unemotional observer and now as an adult with connection to their sober emotions. There is one thing in my life I have a great deal of issue with letting go of. The past is that and cannot be changed. I live now and deal with the past as best I can. Am doing that.
Sometimes there is no right or wrong- only the best decision that was made with what was available at the time.
thanks