I never knew I had needs until now
At the age of 15, I had to take care of everyone in my family ( 6 siblings) including my grandparents. In addition to my primary family, I was the delegated driver for the community. I never knew that I had needs, choices or the like. My mom always told me what to do, where to go, who to take, what to wear, what to cook, and who to take care. I had no childhood experience. Thank you for sharing. I am finally identifying my needs and standing up for myself. I have spent my life controlling my kids and the results are painful. I have allowed them to step all over me. Getting myself together.