Doesn't sound like great dating material. In his defense, he may have been jerked around by a lot of the people he's met online. So he might be seeing red flags of his own in YOUR behavior. I'm not suggesting there's anything wrong (at ALL) with your request to reschedule, just that you don't have to be all outraged about it. It's apparent you aren't a good match right now, so move on. Not that big a deal.
Glad you're getting things squared away with the move. Nothing ever goes perfectly, but you're dealing with it.
Hugs!