I shudder when I think about what could've happened a couple years ago...
My inner dialogue - Oh no he's hungry gotta go can't make him mad, hurry up! Maybe I don't need to shovel so much or ice so much I mean he IS driving 20 minutes to see me and I'm just down the street and ugh he's hungry I feel so bad and what if I don't meet another guy and he's been so nice to me and....
you get the point!
Now my inner dialogue is saying oh hell no! We haven't even officially started dating and this crap is already happening? No way in hell