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JT:
This post rang some bells. Before I left my husband, I was talking to a friend who is a psychologist. I was telling him what was going on at home; thinking it was all a result of Trevor's addiction. Imagine my surprise when he said my ex was being quite abusive!
Now, I'd done years of research on domestic violence. The ex never hit. Somehow, despite knowing that violence involves more than physical violence, I had seperated what I was accepting from him from violence. It was a lightbulb moment to be sure.
This is important information. Thanks for sharing it!
Shalom!