Thoughts please,
A friend of mine who has been through divorce 6 times says I want find any peace by requesting STBXAH to be jointly responsible for martial debts. She feels I should not request a joint settlement of debts. Her philosophy is even when the court orders joint distribution of debts the husband doesn't pay . And women have to constantly file contempt motions and this does not bring peace/closure.
So I asked her is there true peace in one spouse taking all the debt and having to manage how to pay if off for however many years it takes while the other spouse walks away with a clean slate?