Originally Posted by
doggonecarl 
Welcome.
Maybe this summer, different plans. Ones that don't included the drinking-centric weekends. Next year, if still sober, you are more likely to manage the lake house.
I've thought of that, I'm not going to rob my kids of their summer tho, not fair to them, they are use to going there every weekend since they were born and it's a fun place to be for them, I know I can do it I just know it won't be easy, All my friends are supportive of my decision so that is helping, I will just change the type of stuff we do there, when I was a kid I was a very avid water skier and I plan to get back into that, there was lots of days last year that the kids asked to go tubing or wakeboarding and I said no because I had too much already or would rather sit and drink, so stupid now that I can see it with a clear head, everyday it gets clearer why I can never drink again, all that alcohol money will be turned into boat gas to have fun with and not pissed away.