Son didn't steal from us, but I think he would have if we had given him the opportunity (he hasn't lived at home for long before moving away when we kept pressing about rehab).
No, it's not them. But at the same time, even if active addiction stops, this type of mindset often doesn't.... the inability to reflect on one's behavior, the lack of accountability... it scares me. I keep praying that when my son leaves rehab, it'll be a different story.