Originally Posted by PuzzledHeart

You need to check your own credit history to make sure that he hasn't stolen your identity as well. One member here had her identity stolen by her now ex-husband and she still has debt collectors going after her.

I also had my identity stolen. I placed a fraud alert and used a credit monitoring service after eight credit cards were issued in my name.

In regards to everything else, you are doing exactly what you need to be doing at the moment.