I just wanted to comment....
I never realized how much work it takes to be sober. Makes me wish I would have put more energy into this earlier. I think having a good addiction therapist would of helped. Same goes for divorce.
I'm absolutely sure of the fact that there's an emotional process for both divorce and addiction. With the right direction and follow through, I could speed things up a bit.
I'm glad I finally made an appt with a. Therapist. I have so much to address, I have no idea where to begin. My first appt is going to be 1hr where I'll drop everything that is bothering me.
After this post, I'm beginning to wonder if I should perhaps schedule another appointment with a divorce specialist.
I'll just ask my therapist what he thinks about it.