Sodev.....How awesome is it to have your own
support group right here online with many caring
folks like us to travel with you on this wonderful
journey in life.
Us, little mother hens,
raised our infants
to grow into adults now and live their own
lives raising our grandchildren.
An awesome cycle of life that has been
going on for centuries now.
Can you imagine living in the stone age
with baies....lol don't know how those
women did it back in the day but they
survived. Right?
And here today, mothers are using Pampers
instead of cloth diapers which is what my
mom used on me back in 1958.
Today there are so many neat items available
to new moms. But nothing like the traditional
holding and rocking your little one, bonding
closely with them.
When I had my babies, esp.my first one,
Kenny, I was a nervous wreck mainly because
I wanted to be perfect in all I did and not
wanting him to feel the tenseness or stress
I was feeling inside me.
Remaining calm ourselves I'm sure our
babies know that. If we are tensed/stressed
then they feel it when we hold them.
It's hard sometimes to not want our
little ones to see us weak because we are
their role models. They depend on us
for everything until they reach adulthood.
I played a lot of music from the moment
I conceived. All kinds of music and I read
to them while they grew inside me. Sure
enough both grew up playing instruments
in school, becoming leaders and teachers
in music and literature.
What we feed our babies will reflect on
them as adults in some way or another.
Happiness, understanding, caring, and
so many other awesome qualities we have
in ourselves will be those strong traits they
will carry on within themselves.
Anyway....I was just rambling.
I'm so happy that you came back to let us
know how you and baby Aaron are doing
and hope as time goes on you both will
settle in a comfortable rhythm of life.
I know most folks come and go here in
SR. and hope you know that you have a
place right here with us to come to any
time you want or need us.
Just to know that you, we, us, never
have to go thru anything in life alone
or by ourselves is comforting.
We may not be there in person with
you, but thru thru cyber space, we are
with you in spirit and heart lending
an ear to listen to or a shoulder to lean
or cry on and lots of laughter to keep
the heart and soul joyful.
Never hesitate to write any of us privately
if needed or us as a whole for comfort,
guidance, questions, friendship and support
because we are always there and here
for you.
Your SR Angels from afar.
