Nonetheless, his drinking behavior hurts me and I just can't figure out whether I should leave.
doesnt it seem.....ummm....insane that you are questioning whether you want to suffer more?
if ya want more pain, dont leave. hes only gonna drag ya down with him and you will experience gloom,dispair, and agony beyond your wildest dreams.
im in recovery. its what i did to people that stayed around me when i was in active alcoholism.
ya might want to look at how you define love.