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Old 01-16-2017, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted by BrendaChenowyth View Post
Straight to the point, I am talking about sexuality here. Friendships don't get sexual so that doesn't address what's missing in any way, for me.
OK well straight to the point also.

You asked how do you fill the void of a person without moving on? You also specified you're talking about sexuality.

I guess the answer is pretty obvious - you can't

Many folks speak of sublimation...redirecting needs and energy like sexuality into other things...which can be extremely fulfilling and provide surprising benefits. Or not I guess that's for you to decide.

Human beings have a sexual nature. But they're not entirely defined by that one side of their nature. Putting that desire before everything else can be painful, right?

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