I am not opposed to donating the stuff. I'd keep the nice stuff first tho! But I am certain he'll have no problem taking it. I think he just left it here because I was willing to keep it. It's just like with his wife. He didn't take the the stuff til she asked him and even then he took so little that who knows maybe he already knew back then that his hope was one day he'd be reunited with the "best" of it anyway. Or more likely he just doesn't care about possesions that much because all he wants is A. OR he wants his stuff with both of us because he wants both of us to be in his control! WHO KNOWS.