Hi! Good to hear from you!
I think that you should take the bull by the horns....what's 90 days in the grand scheme of things. The thing of it is...if you knew you DIDN'T need to do inpatient, you wouldn't even consider leaving work or your kids to do so. So, the fact that you are kicking around the idea still...makes me think you know deep down that you do need it. I think you should do it.
Congrats on 2 years sober. Let's get this ED under control, get you healthy and whole! We'll be cheering you on from SR!
XOXOXO,
Bunny