Tried to do something normal with the Abf to ring in 2017 where we could be social and around people, but instead ended the night finding him sneaking drinks at the gathering we attended and spending the wee hours of the morning dealing with the tornado aftermath.
Smarie78, I'm hoping that 2017 will be the year that you can see and accept that a relationship such as yours with an active alcoholic is anything but NORMAL. And the more you try and attempt normal the more it's going to hurt.