He's not replying! I don't know if he's away on vacation or if he's going to be a corporate CEO dick to me for being a total unprofessional, drunken idiot the entire time I was there. The thing is, he knew I had problems before he hired me, and it was just a favor to my dad anyway. I told him that I was depressed over my best friend and that I couldn't deal with it.
Hello:
You say that you say you were a totally unprofessional drunken idiot the entire time you were there... what kind of reference will he give you?
Then you said that the administrative assistant thing you did was BS... was that your attitude when you were there? If so, what kind of reference will he give you. Do you expect him to lie? He went out of his way as a favor to your dad and that's how you acted.
What are you expecting from this person?