Update:
I felt so much better but then my daughter started mentioning him a lot so I let her call him after all it's New Year's Eve. He can't call me. But I can call him
So we did.
He said do you want to see me. He hasn't saw her in over 2 weeks of course she said yes. He told her to ask me.
I said ok that's fine spend time with her and then you can go when she goes to bed.
Then it turned into he could only come over if he could sleep here.
Knowing he couldn't. I feel like he did that because he knew I would say no. Then he could use it as an excuse not to come.
He told her to call him right back and he didn't answer for an hour. Then his phone shut off. Finally he called back around 9/10
I think he using still.
I really do.
Like I told him this was his chance to come see her and make her happy. He made it about me. And us.
But at the end of the day his pattern of behavior just leads back to him using and taking pills.
So I told him this is the last time she will contact him
For a while. I let her call I'm letting him hurt her. That's not fair.
Like I told him cool
You went to detox. Your body's clean. Not your mind. I saw where his head was at once again. I'm all set. Wish I never even did it. Ugh 😑