Gaz...........seriously dude, you have been sober 35 days!!!!!!!
No offense intended, but 35 days???? And she is supposed to all of a sudden see some huge change?
N O T ! !
I have not had a drink in over 1,500 days, ya' think my ex sees any change? I doubt it, and further, I don't care if SHE sees a change.
It ONLY matters if I see a change.
AA and other programs are about being comfortable in your own skin with sobriety and learning new behaviors, a new way of life.
What type of program are you working now?
Bet being a dry drunk won't allow her to see any change in you....