LexieCat, if I could avoid it, I would, those friends are free only for couple of days and I know it isn't possible (I asked them already). I wish I wouldn't have to do this in person, but in a way I think I'll feel less guilty (had other relationship with not alcoholic bf, ended it by a phone call and years after still feel bad about it). I already told him that after this meeting I want time and space apart, because I need time for me and he needs time for his recovery.