Being just a little dramatic here, LFME-if you truly believe your avatar then take heed. I was you- once. Supportive family, awareness of what I needed to do- which I rationalised as what I could do. Now I have no family- they don't want me, no career- alcohol, no house- not welcome- divorce- selling up. I am quite literally starting over. Embrace your knowledge now and do something about it- while you still have your life. Prayers to you, PJ