Originally Posted by
NewBeginnings13 
Porn becomes a problem when it upsets the spouse
Porn becomes a problem when it interferes in every day life
Porn becomes a problem when the porn addicted spouse is so consumed by it that's all they can/do think about
Porn is like alcoholism/drug addiction. It starts small (think "Playboy") then as the addiction grows, they need more and more raunchy stimulation to get the same high.
Prom is a problem when the porn addicted spouse lies his ASS OFF about everything.
Think of it this way - if he has to hide it, delete it, lie about it, it's already a problem. It's a form of infidelity people do not understand unless they've stood on those shoes.
Sorry to sound so harsh.... but this situation for me is all of the above.
Hi, thanks for sharing - you don't sound harsh at all, it sounds very difficult and I hope my message didn't sound disrespectful. My intention was not to diminish the difficulty of your situation at all. I hope the meeting with your sponsor goes well, sending support. X