Originally Posted by
GardenMama 
I think it is possible to have boundaries and also keep a phone going. When my RAD was homeless and in active addiction, this was a way I kept my sanity--even if she called asking for something I couldn't or wouldn't give, we had a line of communication.
I also keep communication open and appreciate what you've posted. I'm grateful that, though I don't see my son much, we've been able to get in touch and communicate via text messages.