Yes, a 10-year relationship that has grown to bring you unhappiness, chaos, dysfunction, disrespect, addiction, manipulation and onto the couch of a therapist.
See, your attaching your lifeboat onto your husband and he is anchored to his addict son…………they both will continue to pull you down.
Maybe it’s time to see the therapist all by yourself and work on you and the things you can change and help with detaching from this situation.
It took me a long time to learn the difference between working on a healthy relationship and wasting my time on a long goodbye.