I thought the counseling appt went as well as it could. Then ss came home right after. The 3 of us had a sit down. I walked away feeling worse. He admitted to using morphine this week. Thinks he is not getting enough credit for how good he's doing. Doesn't see how he is disrespecting us in the least. I was pretty straight up with him with what I thought. I feel like he totally manipulated his father again and I somehow got back on the crazy train. I can't sleep and soon I have to get up for work. I can choose to walk away from a 10year relationship or I can continue to live this way because I really need to accept that he is not going to stop enabling his son. I hate both options.
And yes his sis knows he's an addict that recently relapsed and she sees no issue with him babysitting or giving him cash. As I said... Crazy train