You are so very accurate in what you write and although I was mindful enough to realize huge changes needed to be made in order for there to be a change, I guess I wasn't that prepared. It's the children and his limited time with them that cause the most confusion and pain for me. He's a great father and although our older children understand this, the youngest (11) feels a little slighted.
I am so cautious in telling my husband how I feel about this because of course I never want it to come off as anything negative at all. Therefore the last two times this was brought up, I took care and time to let him know that I want him to do whatever is necessary but to please find some measure of balance for our children.
Thank you...