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BrendaChenowyth I have shared about that many times. But one of the things I do is what I'm doing here right now, as I've said a million times, talking them through helps sometimes and other times it doesn't. when I do ask whether others think it would beneficial to talk out these problems with her, people generally tell me I should not do that. I agree. If it comes across as though I am merely whining about them and not making any effort to work on them, that is not the case.
Please pardon my laziness for not doing my own research to learn your recovery strategy. You sound frustrated and irritated, which is understandable. You said talking it out helps sometimes, but not always. So, are you looking for solutions, or just venting?