I have shared about that many times. But one of the things I do is what I'm doing here right now, as I've said a million times, talking them through helps sometimes and other times it doesn't. when I do ask whether others think it would beneficial to talk out these problems with her, people generally tell me I should not do that. I agree. If it comes across as though I am merely whining about them and not making any effort to work on them, that is not the case.